What Holds People Back From Having Success?

Tony Robbins has always been one of my favorite mentors because he is so down-to-earth.

Are you building a business and wonder why some people just don’t “get it”?

What holds people back from succeeding?

Here is a 48 minute interview with John Reese and Frank Kern that can Literally

CHANGE     YOUR      LIFE  – if you apply what  Tony is saying.

These are Real Life Strategies that you can put to use TODAY to start changing your life for the better.

Now, get a beverage, sit back and enjoy:

CLICK HERE to Watch the Interview With Tony Robbins

(It may take a little time to load.)

You Deserve the Best!

Loretta

A Great Coach Is Very Clear On Their Own “WHY”

To build a stable, profitable network marketing business, you must

1. Offer prospects a tested, proven lead generation & training system
2. Develop your own ability to coach your recruits to success in your system

The most important element of being able to coach your recruits to success is … You!

You must understand your WHY and focus on it daily. You’ve got to know exactly what motivates you, or you’ll never be able to help your prospects figure out what motivates them.

And if they can’t state their WHY, then they’ll drift away sooner or later. They can’t maintain their commitment if they can’t see exactly why they’re doing the daily work.

Re-read the first chapter of Success In 10 Steps if you’re at all hazy about your WHY. You’ll get at least 20 questions in that chapter to help you pinpoint your motivations.

Plus … it’ll be a big help to you in coaching others on how to state their WHY and then work toward achieving their goals. That is all a great coach does.

(Note: This article, courtesy of the Author of “Success in 10 Steps”, Michael Dlouhy.)

You Deserve the Best!

Loretta Helson
815-224-4220 Call anytime!
“Be a Mentor With a Servant’s Heart”

What is Reality?

We have a group that is reading and discussing the book, “Betting on Yourself” by Dr. Robert Anthony. We discuss it every Saturday evening starting at 10:30pm ET. Here is my personal discovery from Chapter 3:

Reality IS what it IS, whether we accept that or not!  It is real, true, trustworthy, dependable. It is NOT different things to different people. It is not based on your personal preferences. Reality is NOT what WE perceive it to be.

Once, men thought that the earth was flat and that if they took a ship out to the edge they would fall right off!  Their perception was not reality, not founded on facts and truth.  Once man thought that the earth was the center of the universe and that the sun orbited around earth…and in time, that was proved untrue, also. So their perception was limited and in fact, incorrect! Let us not make the same mistake of thinking our perception is always reality.

Reality Simply IS!  Reality is the truth, and as Michael Dlouhy says (author of “Success in 10 Steps”), “the truth, is the truth, is the truth” whether you accept it or not!

To become firmly anchored in reality is to automatically eliminate most of the problems we have in life because We cause most of our OWN problems! Therefore, whatever we persist in accepting, believing, supporting, condoning, etc is the REAL problem. It’s faulty thinking! It’s not accurate. It’s not Reality. Our perception is not in line with truth!

How do we fix this, fix our problems, improve our lives?

Change our thinking to line up with Reality!

Since we are responsible for our own actions, Probability Thinking can help us. It is based on mathematics, statistics, facts and observation of universal laws already set in place that do not vary or change. These have proved to be dependable. So if we use this reliable (meaning trustworthy, dependable) information, it can help us to be realistic in all of our beliefs which will ultimately affect our decision-making, goals and endeavors.

The author says to “Ask: Is it right?” Is there any reason why I shouldn’t constantly strive to make it the happiest, most productive life I possibly can?  Of course it’s right and there’s absolutely no reason why any of us should live a less productive life! So I will listen and care fully weigh my options and evaluate them realistically based on facts, not faulty perception.

Knowledge based on truth will help us make wise decisions and we alone should take responsibility to strive to make our lives the happiest, most productive, and best lives they can be!

Loretta Helson

Business Mentor and Life Coach

LEARN FROM THE BEST!

“I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career…

I’ve lost almost 300 games…

26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning
shot and missed…

I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life…

And that is why I succeed.”

Who said it?

The legendary icon himself, Michael Jordan.

I have a question for you:

Let’s say your son wanted to be a basketball player.  Do you think that if you arranged for him to sit down for 45 minutes  to an hour with Michael Jordan and he got to ask him anything he wanted, would that help your son?

You betcha!

Now how does that apply to you?

Are you building a business from home?

Would it make sense to learn from the best?

Well, now you can!

*** Absolutely Free! ***

Michael Dlouhy is the Michael Jordan of Network Marketing!

He has over 30 years of experience in the network marketing field, and has been financially free the last 17 of them! He is currently building a business so he’s active today and knows what works today.

How would YOU like to sit down with him for 45 minutes to 1 hour and personally, one-on-one, ask him anything you want to know?  Pick his brain!  Be mentored, coached and trained by the best?

Now You Can!!

Contact me and I’ll set it up for you!

You Deserve the Best!

Loretta Helson
HUGS: “Helping You Grow & Succeed”
815-224-4220 Anytime!

Does Your Network Marketing Company
Make You Successful?
Good question.

Many new distributors think that choosing a different company will make them successful. These distributors think that success is “outside” of them, and that the external factors will make the difference.

But success in network marketing is an “inside job.”

You have to learn some skills. And if you don’t have skills, changing companies just means that you’ll be unsuccessful in a different company.

If you can’t recruit now, changing companies won’t fix that.

In every network marketing company there are some successful distributors, and some unsuccessful distributors. So it is not the company that makes the difference.

Most people want to learn the skills and a lot of people start here http://now.mentoringforfree.com because everybody knows F-R-E-E training is awesome.

HUGS: “Helping You Grow & Succeed.”

Loretta Helson
MentorPlanB@gmail.com
815-224-4220 Anytime

P.S.
What every person that registers for the training loves most is they don’t get sales calls from people trying to get  them to pay for the good training.  All you need to do is put your credit card in the freezer and start learning at http://now.mentoringforfree.com

BEACON OF LIGHT

Most people that are working at creating an extra income from home  (part or full time), whether they are willing to admit it or not, have struggled at some point. In the vast ocean of programs, mlm companies and other income solutions, there are many sharks and sharp rocks that you could run your boat into.

On your way to prosperity, a beacon of light can be your safeguard and guide you through those sharp, jagged rocks and to your success.

Because we have experienced the frustration, our own trial and error, we wanted the truth of what does and doesn’t work. We would like to share what we have learned and are still finding in this wonderful ocean of network marketing.

One of the most important truths, that we have completely absorbed ourselves in, is that personal development is KEY. Without putting conscious effort into growing into the person you were put on this planet to become, you will not reach your full potential, in business or in your personal lives.

Welcome to all of you entrepreneurs! We hope that you each find the information here to be useful (and at the risk of sounding like hype), that it may be life-changing and that you will pass it on to help even more people.

Paying it Forward,

Loretta Helson
Life Coach and Business Mentor
815-224-4220 Call Anytime! (CT-USA)

Never Quit!

Napoleon Hill said, in his book “Think and Grow Rich”, to always look for the lesson to be learned when having a temporary setback or defeat. The following quotes are from Chapter 2 of Hill’s amazing, insightful classic that I believe can help you if you take it to heart.

Economic collapse is creating a new world with New Rules and Opportunities. It’s a Changed World.

Know that “Every failure brings with it the seed of an equivalent success.”

Practical Dreamers do not Quit!

“Dreams are the Seedlings of Reality!”

“All who succeed in life get off to a bad start and pass through many heartbreaking struggles before they ‘arrive’. The turning point in the lives of those who succeed usually comes at the MOMENT of some CRISIS, through which they are introduced to their ‘other selves’.”

We need to have Definiteness of Purpose, knowledge of what one Wants and a Burning Desire to possess it. Then we need a plan and consistent, daily action – persistence – until we achieve it.

Never Quit!

Maybe the next statement will pull you through when you are at your wit’s end and ready to throw in the towel:

More than 500 financially successful men told Hill that “their greatest success came just one step BEYOND the point at which defeat HAD overtaken them!”

Food for Thought!

’til next time,

Loretta Helson
Coach and Mentor with a Servant’s Heart
MentorPlanB@gmail.com

SERVE  OTHERS

Yes, this is the message that I received last week from over 7 different sources as I went about doing my daily business activities!  WoW!

As I read emails, listened to training calls, bumped into videos from friends on facebook and read from a couple different books, the same message kept on jumping out at me.  Every time I turned around, there it was AGAIN!

I could not avoid it. When I noticed it, I made a list of all the various placed that I saw the same exact words – and was astounded!

“S E R V E    O T H E R S”

Over the years, this has become my main purpose in life:  To Serve God and my Fellow Man.  But I’m not going to get into the spiritual aspects of this right now. You are probably here for business reasons and business has certainly changed from sales to building relationships where people get to know each other.

People have to get to know you, like you, and over time come to trust you before they want to do business with you. That’s how business is done on the internet now.  There is probably a good reason why you are here right now.  You see, like attracts like – so I have a strong feeling that you were attracted here because we have some things in common. . . and I’m here to serve you.     This is probably just what you need right now!

I would like to share something very important that may help take your business to the next level.

This one book is changing the face of the entire Network Marketing and Internet Marketing industry. At the risk of sounding like hype, I would like to share with you the fact that it changed my outlook, my business and my life.  Yes, it’s that important. In fact, if you deal with people in your business, experts say you really ought to read it.

It was no fluke that it was offered to me – just as soon as I was ready for it. Perhaps you are ready for it right now, too.

The very best way I can serve you in business, is by sharing this book with you. It’s free and is my gift to you. You see, it is your stepping stone to understanding why the failure is not your fault if you’re struggling in building your business. It will help you avoid getting burned because you will have the blueprint to compare all types of businesses to finally be able to avoid the scams and identify legitimate businesses.

It will open your eyes to the latest attraction marketing methods that are getting results. You will finally understand people and why they say and do what they say and do!  The personal development cannot be beat!  What is that worth to you in business and in your life?

This e-book is your guide to a whole new world of answers that WORK. They have to work because they were compiled by Michael Dlouhy who has been in the industry for 30 years and has been financially free for the last 17 of them.  AFTER having success in his business, he joined about 100 other companies and examined all the good and bad parts and compiled his findings in this book to save us YEARS of failure and frustration!

Please – just get educated first!   Just as a doctor needs training and skills before performing surgery, professional network marketers also need training and skills.  They are all yours FREE for the taking.  Then, continue on to plug into our 10 LIVE Free training/skills calls each week.

Grow, Progress and become the person you need to be to add value to other people’s lives. You Can Do It!  We are here to help you.  You will have a Team of Experts at your beck and call – We are all mentors who Serve Others. Just get plugged in!

Start with the e-book called, “Success in 10 Steps”.  It’s my Gift to you.  It would be a dis-service to you if I didn’t offer it to you. I know the power it can have in your life if you’re ready for it.

If you STUDY it.

If you DEVOUR it.

It can absolutely Change Your Life!

Download it and see for Yourself if it makes a difference.

To Read “Success in 10 Steps” CLICK HERE

I’m here to serve you.

You Deserve the Best!

Loretta Helson
A Mentor with a Servant’s Heart
MentorPlanB@gmail.com

INNER CONFLICTS

Success in business building is 80% psychology and 20% mechanics. If you have inner conflicts, you will continually take 2 steps forward and 3 steps back.

You’ve got to resolve your Inner Conflicts. Why do you keep saying that you want this? You have crystal clarity on why you want to do the business you chose, you have the tools and mentors and you’re still not getting it?  There’s a conflict in you.

For example,

A. You say: “I’m totally committed to this” but you don’t follow through.
B. You have the mentor and tools and you’re still not getting it? There’s a conflict in you.
C. You want to be totally successful, but you’re afraid at some level that if you are totally successful, you will not be loved, you’ll be rejected.
D. You want to be in a position where you have total free time and you want to build a billion dollar enterprise! These are conflicts!
E. You really, truly know you have the tools and talents to make this happen, but a part of you doesn’t think you deserve to succeed…because of something you did at one point of your life, or something you made up…
F. Or you think making money and being successful economically is not spiritual, and you’re committed to being spiritual, yet the other part of you. . .

Do you see what I’m getting at?

It’s the inner conflicts between fighting parts. SO what do we do? Picture it like a Vault that we’ve got to Unlock.

UNLOCK AND UNLEASH!

1. IDENTIFY INNER CONFLICTS. Get clear on what they are. Otherwise you will be pulled in 2 different directions. You have to get clear on what’s most important to you today, not what you think you should do based on an old blueprint, an old belief system, your parents, society, your friends. Otherwise you’ll succeed and not be fulfilled.

One thing that really helps one identify inner conflicts is a group discussion of “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. As you write what you “got” out of each chapter each week and dig deeper, you will be amazed at how it helps you identify your fears, negative thinking and other things that may be holding you back. Once you identify them, you can work at replacing them with positive thinking and actions and start moving forward, unhindered.

2. ALIGN YOUR LIFE WITH WHAT YOU VALUE. What’s most important to you today?  Writing down your reason “WHY” you want to do the business you chose helps you get clear on lining it up with what you truly value in life.

3. TAKE ACTION. You won’t even have to work hard at it!  Do what you Love! When everything is in alignment (what you want and value and what you are doing to get it) there’s nothing pulling you away. BOOM! You GO for it! You become unstoppable! What’s going to happen? You’re going to achieve, succeed, and when you succeed, here’s what you can add to it our Point #4: Celebrate!

4. CELEBRATE! Contribute! Pay it FORWARD. Don’t pay it back. Take what you’ve learned and bring it to someone else. It continues that cycle of fulfillment, of joy, of meaning in your life.

. . . ’til next time,

Loretta Helson
HUGS: “Helping You Grow & Succeed“

Two things are on my mind today that may help you.

WE ARE NOT PERFECT!

Just recently on a training call, a weight was lifted off my shoulders.  The lights turned on!  I was enlightened and unburdened! Here’s the statement that helped me the most:

“You don’t have to get it right, you just have to GET IT GOING!”

We are NOT perfect - and – we do not HAVE to be perfect!  Doing our Best does not require perfection! No, I’m not promoting becoming sloppy in your work ethics.  By no means . . . but

Excellence does not require Perfection. In fact, trying to be perfect can slow you down tremendously! Allow me to explain:

I am one of those people who wants everything  just so!  I was taught early-on that anything I put in front of people is representing me (or the company) and so it needs to be perfect! For example, when I write a blog or article, I go back and tweak it over and over and line everything up, make sure the spelling and grammar are correct, center everything . . . tweak, tweak, tweak….   I want it to be perfect!

On the phone, I wanted every word to be perfect! For years, I wrote phone scripts and stuck to them for fear I would say the wrong thing or forget something!  Oh my, what I went through just because I wanted everything to be perfect!

As you continue to write your blogs, make your phone calls, email people and  whatever else you are doing, you will continually get better as you learn and grow! It does NOT have to be perfect!!

You don’t even have to KNOW IT ALL!!  You can get started and LEARN AS YOU GO!

Excellence does not require Perfection. “You don’t have to get it right, you just have to get it going!”

That was SO hard to wrap my brain around, but you know what?  Once you get this, it is very freeing and it will allow your production (instead of useless activity) to sky rocket!

As soon as I let that sink in, I wrote an email to my brother and wrote at the bottom that I’m sending this email out as-is!  . . . and you know what?  It was fine!  It was perfect, just the way it was!  Just as YOU ARE!

HAVE AN ATTITUDE OF ACTION:

My second thought tied right in with perfectionism.  It came from a quotation from a Facebook friend that I picked up:

“A Woman of Words and not of Deeds is like a Garden full of Weeds!”

Have you just been sitting there, not moving forward in life? Are you just waiting for something to happen? What are you waiting for?  Isn’t it time to take action? . . .  and now you know you don’t have to do it perfectly!

JUST GET STARTED – and MOVE FORWARD!   TAKE ACTION TODAY.

Do something each day to move you closer to your goal.

If you don’t have a list of daily actions you need to take each day to move your business forward, let’s talk!

In keeping with the spirit of this blog, I am going to resist the urge to line everything up just so and tweak it and instead, I’m letting it go as-is!  I think you will enjoy it just fine as I wrote it!  Well, ok, I confess, I did proof-read it! Secondly, I am going to “get it GOING” by Taking Action!  How about you?

. . . ’til next time,

Loretta

HUGS: “Helping You Grow & Succeed”